“Who was he for me? – … Many situations frightened me… I tried crying… I wanted him to stop, to end it.”- twenty first fragment of Martha’s book.

Since that moment the situation got only worse and it was more and more awkward, both at and outside of work. Many situations frightened me, so I tried to show him that I am angry. But when he was saying “I love when you’re angry” I tried crying, because I was getting sad and sorry, especially that so many people have been involved in this nonsense. I wanted him to stop, to end it. So we could get along. Sometimes I was even able to believe that he gave up, when he was  saying that he’s going on a date or coffee with Dagmara. I was happy inside, but again it turned out that he only wanted to check if I’m going to be jealous.

“Who was he for me? – he was following me literally everywhere… I had no idea how he does that. I started thinking that I have a GPS in my car.” – twentieth fragment of Martha’s book

After that, my roommate and others found out that’s something is wrong, and asked me if I needed any help. I was certain that he will get bored or his brother will talk to him. My roommate (with whom I live for 8 years), talked to his brother. It even worked for almost a month. But only with phone calls because he knew, that I won’t answer or text him back. Quickly I’ve noticed that he is following me literally everywhere, to the shop, to friends, to Dublin airport, to work… I had no idea how he does that. I started thinking that I have a GPS in my car.

“Who was he for me? – My friends started to have problems with their husbands… Never in my life I have encounter a situation ored a person like Him” – nineteenth part of Martha’s book

I asked my colleagues to not to give any information, whereas I got phone calls that he is standing under the homes of my friends and why?  My friends started to have problems with their husbands when he was standing at their houses or was bringing gifts to their workplaces. I had to explain (to the husbands) that it was about me, not their wives. I asked him to stop doing this. Never in my life I have encountered a situation or a person like Him

“Who was he for me? – One day, at work, he apologized to me for his behavior….” eighteenth fragment of Martha’s book

One day at work he apologized to me for his behavior and said, that he knows that he went too far, could I at least start saying “hi” to him again. OK, Hi, how are you, goodbye. But the culture quickly started changing into curiosity, questions, not only to me but to other people I knew. Where I was, with whom, how long, when, etc.

“Who was he for me? – Talking to his brother helped. Everything was fine for a week…” – seventeenth fragment of Martha’s book

At work he made comments about who he doesn’t like, so that I would not befriend that person. Everything started to happen incredibly fast in those awkward situations. The phone was ringing off the hook and lots of texts. So I’ve decided to talk to his brother. He agreed to talk to him. I knew that I have to ignore his behavior and not to explain myself to him. Talking to his brother helped.  Everything was fine for a week…

“Who was he for me? – …I’ve noticed… his car more often at my home… I’ve figured out that he’s following me. He found all places where my friends live…” – sixteenth fragment of Martha’s book

“I’ve noticed, that he rides to work earlier than he was supposed to, so he can park his car beside me, and when when I signed out at the end of the work day, he was waiting near my car. He insisted for us to go for coffee but I refused syaing that I’m busy. I’ve also noticed his car more often at my home, and after short time, I’ve figured out that he’s following me. He found all places where my friends live, because it is a small village.”

“Who was he for me?… He tried to tell me with whom I can or I shouldn’t talk at work” – fifteenth fragment of Martha’s book

I’ve noticed that change already when I bought a car, and I could be independent. Asking about who I was talking to on a break. To who I gave a ride or with who I was returning. It was becoming more bold on his side with every month. He tried to tell me with whom I can or I shouldn’t talk at work. So I started to lightly explain to him, that I don’t need his advice, and that I take care of everything myself perfectly. But the situation grew much more serious.

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Nearest plans regarding Martha’s case – a busy end of a year and a promising start of new year

How will this year end?
What else do we plan in upcoming time?

We present our nearest actions:
1. Change of the graphic layout of the websites pomocdlamarty.pl and helpformartha.org
2. Publishing of abnormalities in the investigation and in the trial.
3. Airing of the “Case for the reporter” programme in Polish TV (probable date is Thursday, November 29, at 9:30 p.m.)
4. Filling of missing abnormalities in the investigation and the trial.
5. Starting Frequently Asked Questions page.
6. Starting fundraising for two kinds of expertise needed to submit the case in Ireland.
7. Works for resubmitting the case to the Court in Ireland – NEW FACTS
8. Submitting the case to the Court in Ireland – NEW FACTS – January 2019

Martha is learning for high school exam, and we act.
May Martha could spend her life after high school exam free…
Would that…
… We already have New Year wishes for 2019…

Killer driver Marta Herda blames victim for his death in prison book – Independent.ie

Killer driver Marta Herda blames victim for his death in prison book – Independent.ie

Killer driver Marta Herda blames victim for his death in prison book – Independent.ie

Killer waitress Marta Herda has written a book blaming her victim Csaba Orsos for his own death.

Source: www.independent.ie/irish-news/killer-driver-marta-herda-blames-victim-for-his-death-in-prison-book-37419733.html